29 weeks of the 2nd pregnancy (7th month) – confession, thoughts, self being

Imagine that, 7th month started

I can not believe the calendar already, because I am promising myself to write more often about my feelings, just not to forget what is happening during this wonderful time, but the time is just passing under my hands and I can not catch it.

There is alway something else to do. But now I took some time just for myself and actually Carlito. Yes it is official now. I am expecting second boy. Most of you, my friends you know it. I wrote it last time but after the ultra sono in 25th weeks, we saw it 🙂 …yes again these few cm extra which makes difference 🙂

Carlito probably knows that I am joking about him, because he is kicking me, maybe some night stretching or salsa dancing practice, but I feel already his movements. It is the most exciting time for each mom I think when you start to feel that your baby is moving insight. Because then you start to recognize him more. Since 7th month, babies start to hear and be more interactive with light. So it is curious, how Carlito is reacting to Edie.

I think that they will be nice couple. Edie is already recognizing and pointing to my belly if we ask him: Where is the mimi? or Where is your brother? And it is nice to see him that he goes and kisses the belly or tries to caress him. Not always, sometimes he punches me too, but it is more because of game. Most often he is kissing his little brother.  I am thinking how is the best way to tell him, to prepare him, but I feel it more naturally as process. I was already watching with him some books, where they were showing pregnancy and he recognized baby in belly and pointed on my belly. So for me is curious that such a little child like Edie  can make clear connections.

And something about me, my feelings, my thoughts, my activity…….something about “little carrier” ……as Carlos called me once, sweetly and softly 🙂

• In general I feel great, surprisingly I do not have any problems, like I had with Edie, no pains in my back, no pain in my hips. As I wrote I just had a bit harder belly which is signal of lack of Magnesium and too much wight and rush. But besides that I am more than fine 🙂
• Everyday I used to have same cycle, during the morning I drive Edie to the kinder, he stays there until 12am. During that time I used to work and o Skupiner stuff. Now I started to help also one of our partner with promotion strategy and marketing advices. We focused on healthy business, so called green products. I like this topic, because it is something what is improving our life. So it is also hobby connected with work.
• After I pick Edie from kinder I am usually with him at home or with friends, or managing necessary things relating to household, business, family etc. Simply what is needed. Our day has to be full of activities, otherwise he is board and than he does mess. So it is much easier to use his energy wisely and make him clean, sort the things, play, be creative, be just active, do some sport. What ever, just to be active. We cook together, clean, sort, everything. He loves that, it is helpful and we spend time meaningfully.

• Durin the weeks I try to arrange also household, although my mum is angel so she is helping me a lot. Without her I would not be able to manage soooo many things as I am. Because now in Skupiner I am responsible for partners, for copywriting, for promotion of deals, for post sales, partially for customer support………..so many things to do. And I really want to have still social life. So all together there are always planty of things to do and organize. Now I am in the process of organizing Edies 2nd B-day and also running around my dad which is sick. He got pneumonia of both lungs, so there will be long time for his healing process. And since Carlos is in Venezuela now, I really tries to spend time outside and not to pay attention that we are separated for short time.

I was thinking which kind of pregnancy I am living now. Because I feel balanced. I feel happy that I am running my business, meeting tens of new people every day. Having negotiation on everyday basis and sometimes nice and sometimes not that nice. But generally I met very nice people with many life and business stories. And I was thinking whether Carlito can feel it and I will grow from him good sales manager 🙂 Becasue till now he had with me at least 50 business mtgs 🙂 if not more!

I have to confess that I do not have much time to do sport. Like I would like to, but I do no have spear energy and I also consider that Edie is good exercising tool by himself. To be running around him, to make him walk, jump, crawl, ride me as horse etc. Makes me active enough. And probably more naturally than to being exercising in some fitness. So conclusion there is no need for special treatment if you have Edie. He is like Duracel batteries. They will never stop!

In general I am happy to have my second pregnancy. I feel mostly enthusiastic. I sing songs like before, we talk with Carlito, I try to rest, especially when Edie is sleeping and I try to go to bed around midnight. Because Edie is great alarm clock (6 am max 6:3o is ouir daily routine :)). So no matter on weekdays or weekends we have our schedule done.

I would wish to have all the mums pregnancy like I have. With no problems, with good feelings about themselves. I feel that I am growing another happy baby and wish Carlito nice life. We are expecting him on 26. 4. 2011 but let’s see when he will decide to see us. At least he should wait until Carlos will come.

Mahandas Gandhi once said: No matter what you do! It is the most important that you do that! So I believe that every single things I do in my life is worth and that it will contribute to the creation of new Carlito’s life and development of Edie’s life too. I am looking forward to hugs soon my both suns and I am certainly not afraid of the demanding care because of 2 kids. I would call it more excitement. The great thing is. If you do not have experience in certain field, you have no idea what is waiting for you! And that is the unanimous life truth!

And one more Quote from Gandhi: A man is but the product of his thoughts. What he thinks, he becomes.…….and that is certainly what drives my enthusiasm and my energy. My life optimism is the way of my being!

Nobody can hurt me without my permission.

Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.

About zlatavaskova

Young always smiling mom of 2 boys . Finished her master degree at the Economical University in Brno (Czech Republic) country in the heart of Europe. Heading new life stage with a brand new role in my future life career. I have been working for student NGO AIESEC, playing accordion for 11 years, swimming as a competitive mono flip swimmer, singing in a teenage choir and joining different hobbies when any opportunity appeared. I love traveling and exploring new countries so that's why I have been studying abroad (Finland, Thailand), working abroad (Estonia) and daddy of my kids is from Venezuela :). I am a passionate dancer too. Now working for various projects, passionate about a vegan diet.